Maybe Men are not Asshole Maybe We are too Hard on Them

 Today I was watching some videos on the internet and one woman on wedding tv show was saying I'm a housewife and want get married to the doctor he should have a car and house and so on. And this video pushed me to think about if we force or overtax men in society. They all must have a good job, earn money and they can't cry, can't laugh womanly, can't be scared. It is shame on them if they go to the neighbours for gossip.They can't say I'm unstrong among friends and boohoo because we judge them harshly while they more tolerant they find out easily how forgiving real shortcomings and errors.

 I think it is really faulted to say women deserve love most in the world. I'm sure there are many boys who don't even know how to be in a relationship anymore because some smarty girls come on too strong and seem aloof. Despite everybody likes people with confidence (try not to drop hints about wanting to get married halfway through the third date:D). Some girls really play way too hard get it sounds awesome to create a challenge in first days. 

 If men chase us it is not cool but if they don't it means they don't care about us. It is always not nice to say this clothes good on you but they chaser to do that, we shouldn't push them to the fakeness and we run from men who seem to appear too available. 

 Conversations take two people and listening each other is the most important thing. Usually, we behave selfishly we wait for too much love and interest and presents by them and boys put we and our needs first. 

 Lets be realistic they just don't think about screwing they also have daily problems as we, maybe they think more than us because we have grown up listening romantic stories and they have grown up watching porn. We pretend not to understand what they want, we just expect and accept men who work for us and society think they have nothing on their mind but sex. Lets say they don't have any idea on sth without sex how can they be successful worker, father,teacher or doctor so in daily life they try hiding their porn habits and dirty thoughts.I hate all advertisements which have naked women pictures and videos to expose their dirty thoughts. Please, girl be honest you also like wearing sth seductive for getting their attention.

 For the last touching, I invite you to think men aren't the cheater, abusers or players only. We should give up changing their existence, nature, blaming them and the way they think maybe we need to change ourselves. Men aren't the problem and women too. The problem is the bullshit. In our society just I want everybody is loved, respected without judgement.